A Piece of My Heart

It is with a heavy heart that I say that Gus, the 12-year old beloved Basenji, passed away last week. I didn’t mention anything about his illness, as we were hoping for more good days and more time with him.

I met Gus about a decade ago when I met Chris (my ex). When Chris and I started sharing our lives together, Gus became my dog, too. When Chris and I split up last year, Gus stayed with Chris. Over the last year, I was lucky enough to get extended “custody” visits while Chris traveled.

Gus suffered from tumors on his spine. They were inoperable and benign. As they grew, they began to effect the movement on one side of his body until it was too difficult for him to get around. Chris made sure he had the very best of treatments. Gus was not in pain.

Here’s what I’ll remember about Gus.

img_1124.JPG Gus was a sweet and funny guy.
nuggle.JPG He and Ike were best friends from the moment they met.

Gus was totally the boss, and Ike was cool with that.

stairs2.JPG Gus and Ike were a great team.

Before Chris and I moved in together, both dogs had huge issues with separation anxiety. Once they had each other, they could hardly care less when the humans left the house.

img_0533.JPG The family grew and changed, and every dog that came into the house knew to respect Gus.
425261160_dc666e767a.jpg Unlike other Basenjis I’ve known, Gus enjoyed quiet time on his own.

While everyone else was crowding in for a spot on my lap, Gus could be found happily chillin’, away from the chaos.

seattle.jpg Gus was a smallish Basenji, and super fast.

It was a nightmare to ever have to catch him when he didn’t want to be caught.

clogs.JPG Gus lived more places than most people. He was born in Texas, then moved to Detroit. Then Chris was transferred to Seattle, where we met. The four of us (Chris, me, Gus, and Ike) were transferred to The Netherlands. Then it was Houston, with extended stays in Austin with me.

He also traveled across the country in a car several times. He was a super good car dog.

img_1932.JPG His official official name was Augustus Africanis, or something very close.

His full name was Gustopher Wayne.

He answered to Gus, Gussy, Gussy Wayne, Baby G – and when he was a puppy, “Dammit Gus!”. (He was a difficult puppy.)

dsc01957.JPG Over the last several years, Gus and Ike have both mellowed-out and become more predictable dogs. No more worrying about someone eating the sofa, ripping up carpet, or hiding a toilet brush in the bed.
img_1689.JPG Basenjis are “barkless”, but Gus was quiet even by Basenji standards. When he was super happy he would wag his tail and make an excited little whine – but he never “barooed”.

I always said that the only time Gus would make a noise is when someone stepped on him, which was pretty accurate.

img_1363.JPG He was both sweet and demanding.

He would gently bite anyone who dared to stop petting him.

img_1650.JPG There are lots of people who are going to miss Gus and his big personality.

Chris and I both miss him very much.

I’d like to end this post on a happy note. This is how I’ll remember him most. Gus had a great sense of humor. While he was truly frightened by a few things – children, thunderstorms, and bouncing balls….there were a few things he pretended to hate for the comedy factor – pepper, chapstick, and spray bottles.

Here’s a little video of Gus reacting to chapstick.

Hail to the Chief

Semi-Fast-Topic-Changing Friday on the menu today. May I suggest a Cabernet Sauvignon as your wine choice?

day-300.JPG First up – I’ve made it to DAY 300 in my year-long self-portrait photo project. THREE-HUNDRED.

Now the panic is setting in…how do I NOT take a photo of myself every day when the project is finished??

It’s become such a habit!

Next…!

img_3054.JPG Let’s talk about Brucie. If you need catching up – foster dog, skinny skinny, heartworm positive.

He’s now in the second half of his 8-week heartworm treatment. The first half was a breeze, but this half is tougher on him. Poor kid.

The good news is that even through the treatment, he’s put on seven pounds!

img_3529.JPG He was a dirty, flea-infested, outdoor dog with no indoor skills. Now he’s a well-behaved, house-trained, sofa dog.

His favorite things in life are (in this order): That Guy, me, food, the other dogs, air conditioning, and a soft bed. He’s come a long way, and I’m so proud of him.

img_3019.JPG Now I have a confession to make. His name isn’t Brucie.

Keeping with my theme of presidential names for my dogs, his name is actually William Henry Harrison. Nickname: Tippecanoe. Or Tippy, for short.

img_3432.JPG I’ve kept this a secret, because he’s officially a FOSTER. FOSTER.

But really, I don’t have it in me to care for a dog for two months through this awful treatment only to pass him on to another family. I couldn’t do it to myself, to the other dogs, or especially to little Tippy.

So with his new presidential name, we know what that means…

img_3128.JPG Dwight D. Eisenhower
Abraham Lincoln
William Henry Harrison

Ike, Abe, and Tippy…how lucky am I to have three resident dogs?

Welcome to your forever home little man!

Have a great weekend!

Crazy, Indeed

Just a quick post to say a few things:

1. Hurricane Ike didn’t hit Austin. We are safe and well with no damage to the house.

2. Hurricane Ike DID hit Houston. Chris (my ex) was without power until a couple of days ago. His house was hot and humid and needs repairs, so he brought his dogs here for a little air conditioning relief.

So, that makes FIVE dogs for me this week. You know I love them all dearly, but…FIVE.

To make things even more interesting – Gus isn’t feeling well, so he needs special care and extra help. Even MORE interesting – Lou and Brucie are usually either tearing around the house doing the Basenji 500, or trying to rip out each others’ jugulars. Every time I sit down for a second, I have to jump up to either resolve a fight or open the back door or refill the water bowl or go on a walk or move a dog bed or hand out treats or, or, or…

Here we are this morning after the dog walks. Oh, they are sweet things.

(Ike’s the blurry one doing a trick for the treat. Abe is off in the back, trying to stay out of the way. Brucie is the super-hungry one, front and center. Lou is the tiny one in front, flipping his head from side-to-side. Gus is on the right…I had just given him a treat, and he turned his head to chew it.)

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Have a great weekend!

At Least MY Ike is Calm.

Over the river and through the woods to Fast-Topic-Changing Friday we go.

17455816_320×240.jpg Ike the Hurricane? Problem for Texas.
img_3049.JPG Ike the Basenji? Much less of a problem.

Next…!

img_2961.JPG That Guy ripped one of his wool bicycling jerseys on a tree branch. He asked me to fix it, and “make it look like Frankenjersey”.

Ooookay, you got it. (I’ve never done Franken-finishing-work before. Pretty fun.)

Next…!

img_3054.JPG Update on Brucie: he’s taking the heartworm treatment like a champ. He doesn’t seem to feel sick at all, just a little tired sometimes.

He’s a good boy. Mostly.

Next…!

img_3037.JPG Brucie likes yarn. And not in a good way.

He “played” with this yarn for about .2 seconds, and this was the result.

img_3039.JPG Hey! This yarn is the same color as this box of wine!
img_3043.JPG Hey! I know this color!

(Pretty smart of the wine people to use Tiffany Blue. Caught my eye at the grocery store!)

Next…!

img_3006.JPG I surprised That Guy by vandalizing one of his bicycles with knitting. He likes it.

It would have been a more intense act of vandalism if I had actually seamed it to the bike…but I opted for buttons.

Next…!

img_3060.JPG I hope everyone stays safe during the hurricane this weekend. We’re sticking close to home and doing this.

Have a great weekend!

As if We Were Both Quite Insane

Pour some Fast-Topic-Changing-Friday on me.

Okay.

Warning: This is a seriously Basenji-heavy post. It’s been a seriously Basenji-heavy week.

img_2755.JPG Brucie, my foster dog, started heartworm treatment this week.

He is supposed to be still and quiet for TWO MONTHS.

img_2881.JPG So That Guy bought this sweet, teenytiny bed for the teenytiny dog.

Brucie never gets to enjoy it, because it’s always overflowing with way too much Ike.

Next…!

day-264.jpg I thought keeping Brucie quiet would mean that I would have a lot of knitting time.

Nope.

Next…!

img_2796.JPG I know I’ve said it before, but That Guy is seriously dreamy for a lot of reasons.

Here he is, demonstrating some dreaminess with the native carry. He does animal rescue too, so he totally “gets” it.

Instead of being weirded-out by all of the dogs in my house, he just helps with handing out affection.

Next…!

img_6784.JPG I’m still working on supersecret knitting that I can’t show you. Instead, here is what I was knitting one year ago today.

It is strange to look at this picture and remember. So much has changed in the past year.

Next…!

img_2936.JPG One of these dogs snagged this folded t-shirt from the bathroom counter and placed it neatly on the futon.

I don’t know how or why…I just take the photos around here.

Have a great weekend!

Wigs and Haberdashery

Ground floor perfumery,
Stationery and leather goods,
Wigs and haberdashery,
Kitchenware and Fast-Topic-Changing-Fridays…going up!

One-hundred points to anyone who recognizes this song.

img_2746.JPG We have a new foster boy, named Brucie.

I picked him up from a bad situation as a representative of Basenji Rescue.

He’s a foster. He’s a foster. He’s a foster. Repeat as necessary.

img_2787.JPG He is a handsome, sweet, and skinny thing.

We’re working on getting him up to normal weight, and on Tuesday, he starts heart worm treatment.

We’re focusing on his bright future, not his rough past.

img_2783.JPG Now if he would just PLEASE STOP PEEING ON THE GAZEBO.

Next…!

bind_off_bw_2-sm.jpg Stephanie and I are working on a little “how to knit” booklet for a kit to be sold at The Knitting Nest.

She takes such nice photos.

Next…!

5.jpg I won a Namaste photo contest on Ravelry (well, I tied for first) with this photo. This is all the gear they sent to me! So exciting.

They make such nice knitting gear.

img_2699.JPG When the box arrived, Abe went NUTS. I handed him the packing paper, and he was good for hours.

To see all three winning photos, visit the Namaste site and click on “Photo of the Month”.

Next…!

img_2780.JPG On the needles…the Tapestry Cowl from pepperknit (aka MintyFresh).

Such a great pattern. I’ll be teaching this project as a class in September…so many lessons! Magic cast-on, double-knitting, colorwork, chart-reading, and how-to-make-the-perfect-omelet.

Next…!

img_2685.JPG This crate is set up for when That Guy comes over to visit with his dog. (She has to be crated when we’re out of the house.)

I spent YEARS trying unsuccessfully to crate train Ike. Now that I don’t care anymore, he hangs out in here all the time.

Have a great holiday weekend!

The Reject Pile

I’ve mentioned before that I’m working on a self-portrait photo project – a self portrait every single day for one year. Today I went back through the reject pile for some of the more ridiculous outtakes.

There is a common theme with many of these photos…don’t ask me how, but I manage to take a photo of myself before I’m ready. That, my friends, is a rare and stupid talent.

img_0452.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I wasn’t ready.

img_0636.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I wasn’t ready.

img_8980.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I wasn’t ready.

img_9283.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: Ike looks totally bored.

img_0825.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I never intended to look this sweaty.

img_8357.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I need to actually be in the photo.

img_2609.jpg Outtake of this photo.

Reason: Ike was ready, but he wasn’t the guy I wanted in the photo.

img_9072.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: I don’t need to take a photo showing how annoyed I was during the photo shoot.

img_9619.JPG Outtake of this photo.

Reason: Not only was I not in this photo, but Abe took one of the zeros off the wall and ran off with it.

Good times.

Brrrr!

Lights! Camera! Fast-topic-changing-Friday!

2.jpg Tropical Storm Edouard was a total disappointment ’round here. Austin’s thirsty lawns were only given a sip of water.

However, the storm did drop the temperature about ten degrees.

It was only 95 degrees that day! I tried to stay warm.

This photo is part of my self-portrait project.

Next…!

img_2427.JPG Gus and Lou (my ex’s Basenjis) are back in Houston now, and I’m left with Ike and Abe.

After four weeks with four dogs, my house is so very still and quiet. (Barkless dogs can still cause commotion, trust me.)

But…

img_2480.JPG I have this new girlfriend named Zelda who frequently visits. She’s half-Basenji, half-Lab.

She looks Lab-ish, no doubt (hello, tongue!), but don’t be fooled. She baroos. She climbs high on to the back of furniture to rest. She hates getting wet. She hunts. She’s way smart.

Oh, she’s a sweet wiggle butt.

Next…!

1.JPG Before…(sexy!)
3.JPG And after.

These are the Fiber Trends Felt Clogs, knit with Cascade 220.

Totally fun knit.

Details on The Rav.

Next…!

img_2465.JPG I have to assume that there was something REALLY interesting outside this window while I wasn’t home.

I need to teach the dogs how to work the pull cord.

But the fun doesn’t end there…

4.jpg Abe carried the Olympic Torch of Yarn through the house last night.

He sure set it up to make it look like Ike did it. Sneaky.

Have a great weekend!

Monday is the New Friday

Monday isn’t really the new Friday, but a fast-topic-changing Monday can make it feel like it. I give you permission to pretend the weekend starts today!

Funny, after not posting for a while, I’m kind of nervous. Like, maybe I’ve forgotten how to do this! Let’s see how I do…

img_2285.JPG I’ve had all four Basenjis (mine and my ex’s) for almost a month now. I do love having them here, but crikey. The four-dogs-to-one-human ratio is tough on the human.

Can you imagine how many kisses I shell out in one day?

Next…!

img_2120.JPG Thank you all for your kind get-well wishes regarding The Four-Week Headache. I’ve been feeling much better over the last several days.

The doctors haven’t come up with a cause, but I have a pretty good idea. I believe it has to do with the Botox wearing off. I won’t do that again!

Next…!

img_2366.JPG I’m seeing a guy who might just enjoy giving me flowers as much as I enjoy receiving them. Nice, huh?

Not only is he wonderful in all kinds of wonderful ways, but there’s a bonus! He does animal rescue, he adores my dogs, AND he has a Basenji-mix of his own. I know. I’m totally lucky.

Next…!

img_2346.JPG Lookit this awesome gift I got from my friend Melissa (another Basenji Rescue gal)! She stitched and embroidered this Basenji face for me out of silk. She says that Ike wasn’t the model for it, but the resemblance is uncanny.

Next…!

img_2373.JPG Ah, knitting. How I love thee. I wish I could show you what I’m knitting, but I can’t. It’s a super-secret project for The Crochet Dude. Sorry – this is all ya get.

Next…!

img_2362.JPG Last night was another Possum Night. Three dogs BOLTED out of bed at 3:30am to go after a possum in the backyard. HOW DO THEY KNOW?

Anyway, Gus was the only dog who agreed with me – staying in bed was a MUCH better idea.

Have a great…umm…week!

One Year Ago…

One year ago, I was experiencing a seriously rough time. Like, life-changing rough. I didn’t know WHERE I wanted to live, or HOW I was going to live. All I knew was that I was suddenly single, and that everything was changing. So much has happened in the past year. It’s so different, and so very good.

Now…

I love what I do every day. When I leave the house, I kiss the dogs and say “Bye, I’m going to knit!”. I never use the word “work”.

I am surrounded with friends. Not just any ol’ friends. Friends who look at me with a soft focus. They are slow to judge, and quick to help. They support me when I need it (or they send their husbands if it involves electricity or a lawnmower), and they call me out when I deserve it. They challenge me, they knit with me, they hold me, they make me laugh. They are introducing me to this new city, drinking wine with me at my house, and skipping dinner to talk with me on the phone. I’ve found friends who don’t expect me to censor myself or to try to impress them. They’ve seen me swear like a sailor with chipped nail polish, and they are still my friends.

I have a dinky, outdated, wonderful house. I have a big yard that has me complaining every week, but I love it. Every morning I wake up, make coffee, and open doors and windows to let the fresh air in and the bad dogs out. I’ve been here six months, and I haven’t even finished unpacking. It’s new and awesome to me every day.

I’m dating. I don’t talk much about it on verypink, but it’s really fun. (Enough said on that for now.)

I’m busy. I knit, I take photos, I teach knitting, I design, I hang with the dogs, I date, I see my friends, I watch old movies, I read, and I try to feed myself well. I manage all this, plus a 15 minute nap in the afternoon.

I’m learning. About who I am as a single person, and what I enjoy when there is no one else to consider. I’m learning about Austin, and air conditioning, and allergies, and photography. About food, and dogs, and other people.

I am so grateful. Every single day. I can barely remember the woman who was so sad and confused one year ago. Lookit me! Hey! I did it!

Thank you, thank you. For the support, the Christmas cards, and the emails. I don’t know how to express how much they helped. People actually email ME now to ask me how I made it through the turmoil. ME!

I am so happy, and excited to see what the next year will bring.

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